On the evening of August 2, 2015, 31-year-old Judy Malinowski went to a gas station in Gahanna, Ohio, with a man who had once promised to love her. Within minutes, her life would be forever changed by an act of unimaginable cruelty—an act that would ultimately transform Judy from a victim into a powerful voice for justice.
A Complicated Relationship
Judy Malinowski was a mother, a daughter, and a woman struggling to rebuild her life. Like many people trapped in abusive relationships, she shared a turbulent, on-again, off-again relationship with her boyfriend, Michael Slager. Friends and family later described the relationship as volatile, marked by control, jealousy, and escalating danger.
That night, an argument broke out between them at a gas station. What should have been a private disagreement ended in public, irreversible violence.
An Attack Caught on Camera
During the argument, Slager retrieved gasoline from his truck and poured it on Judy. Surveillance cameras later showed him stepping away while Judy pleaded for help. Instead of stopping, he returned and ignited the fuel, leaving her critically injured as witnesses rushed to help and emergency services were called.
The attack, recorded by ATM cameras, would later become a key piece of evidence—but for Judy, survival became the only immediate goal.
Defying the Odds
Doctors were blunt. Judy’s injuries were so severe that survival seemed impossible. She was placed in a medically induced coma, and her family was prepared for the worst.
But Judy refused to die quietly.
After eight months, she woke up.
What followed was nearly two years of hospitalisation, more than 60 surgeries, and relentless physical pain. Yet those closest to her said her greatest strength was not physical—it was her will to be heard.
Turning Pain Into Purpose
As time passed, Judy became increasingly aware that her body was failing. Rather than retreat into silence, she made a courageous decision: she would testify.
In early 2017, from her hospital bed, Judy gave a three-hour videotaped deposition. Doctors reduced her pain medication so she could speak clearly. Every word cost her energy. Every sentence required strength.
She described the attack calmly, deliberately, ensuring that the truth would survive even if she did not.
Judy later told loved ones she did not want revenge. She did not want the death penalty. What she wanted was accountability—and for her story to help others escape violent relationships before it was too late.
Her Final Days and Lasting Impact
On June 27, 2017, Judy Malinowski passed away at the age of 33.
Her death changed the case. What had once been attempted murder became homicide. Michael Slager was indicted for murder and, in July 2018, pleaded guilty. He was sentenced to life in prison.
But Judy’s legacy extended far beyond the courtroom.
Her testimony helped influence legal reforms, including changes that strengthened the rights of victims to give recorded statements when they may not survive to testify in court. Her story has since been shared by domestic violence advocates, lawmakers, and survivors across the country.
More Than a Victim
Judy Malinowski is often remembered for what was done to her—but she deserves to be remembered for what she did afterward.
She chose courage over silence. Truth over fear. Purpose over despair.
In her final months, Judy ensured that her voice would outlive her pain. And because of that, her story continues to save lives.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, help is available. Judy’s story is a reminder that leaving can be dangerous—but staying silent can be deadly. You are not alone, and your life matters.